men and women responsibilities

date: 30 october 2008
time: 12.27pm

Human = eat + sleep + work + enjoy
Pigs = eat + sleep
Hence, Human = Pigs + work + enjoy
if, Human - enjoy = Pigs + work
in other words,
Human that don't know how to enjoy = pigs that work
Men = eat + sleep + earn money
Pigs = eat + sleep
Hence, Men = Pigs + earn money
if Men - earn money = Pigs
in other words,
Men that don't earn money = Pigs
Women = eat + sleep + spend
Pigs = eat + sleep
Hence, Women = Pigs + spend
if, Women - spend = Pigs
In other words,
Women that don't spend = Pigs
Summary:
Men earn money not to let women become pigs!
Women spend not to let men become pigs!
Men had to earn money while
Women had to spend money

sis 23th birthday

date: 28 october 2008
time: 11.24pm

sis b'day was on yesterday,27 october. first of all i would like to wish her happie b'day here again.hope ur dreams come true lar..

HAPPY BIRTH-DAY SIS!!

on that day itself,me and mom went to Batu Pahat to watch a little cousin performance at a xxx dewan (i dunno wat's d name of the place :p) with food provided. and the food itself is from MUAR. wahkaka..i'm wondering is the food in BP that sucks even Batu Pahat ppl need to call food from Muar restaurant.haha!!well,no offence to all the BP citizen duh.

and after the show and dinner it was already 10pm.go back to cousin aunty hse,mo here mo there ady 10smth gonna 11 soon.yet we haven bought any cake. me and mom is like so rush to get a cake.but hello~eventhough we are rush but we still demand for a SECRET RECIPES cake okie..but too bad,BP d Secret Recipe shop gonna close soon n there's no more variety of cake available.. SO,no Secret Recipe cake for her!!den we headed back Muar,hopefully can still get some cake in the midnite..i was like driving for 110/km in dat small,dark n repair-ing road.luckily there's not much car dat nite..den we manage to reach Muar at around 12.
once we reach,staright away,we go n look for cake shop and lastly we manage to get a cake from a cafe.

on the way back home,me n mom is liek still planning how to gv sis a surprise and mom keep telling me that she dunno how to tell lies!! =.="
(skip the whole on-the way-back-home story)

when we reach home,it was still early around 1am and of course sis haven sleep lor.still early mar.den we like wait n wait n wait see when is sis going to bed..around 2 liao!!sis haven wanan sleep.bo pian so i told her bf dat we bought a cake secretly without letting noe. dat 'wu tao bo nao,wu nao si chao' d Jeffery,say liao also kek si..i told him secretly n he like answer me loud
loud.ish!!NOOB betul lar!!

and lastly we manage to coax her to sleep.

and here's d funny part.i ask mom pretend to go and sleep and switch the light in sis room den ask me to come n sleep also.MANATAU~~

30minutes pass.............................

mom haven call for me wan and sis room is still bright so i tot of calling my mom. when she answer,here's the conversation:
>>me: wei ma!apa u buat kat sana??still dunwan call me to go n sleep ar??!! u fall asleep liao issit??
>>mom: oh,wanna call u to sleep liao ar? aiyah,i'm playing with the psp lar..forgot liao!!
>>me: WAT??!! if i din call u den u dunno wanna call me liao lar..apalar..fast fast lar..sunpian switch mai sis d light ler..
>>mom: aiyor,i dunno how to act ler..
>>me: aiyar,u jz say "wanna watch movie y dunwan close light ler" like dat lar..
>>mom: arh..hanah hanah!!

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and so,my mom close d light in my sis room without saying anything and come down to d living room. still on the stairs she ady start laughing while calling me to sleep..SWT =.="
dunno wat she is laughing at makes me laught together as well..
laugh laugh laugh..den stop.start to light d candle and bring d cake up.on the stairs we stil laugh.like orang gila like dat..mom bring sis d music candle along and turn it on.we heard sis is like so amuze.tot we're playing wit her candle light so she din bother us.luckily dat jeff still noe wat to do and she bring sis to d stairs.

seeing us laughing and wit the cake on the hand,she was indeed surprise..

PLAN SUCCESS!!

-den the wishing n blowing the candle session-come down to d dining room,cut the cake n we manage to cincai cincai eat abit lor..late ady mar.fat wan ler.so cant eat so much..

after everything,den we headed back to sleep and continue wit the usual routine..
and so sis b'day pass with a simple cake and a normal living routine of the day..

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when CARING turns wrong

time: 13 October 2008
date: 06.04am

C.A.R.I.N.G. it sounds easy for every human being. Everyone can said that they cared for people around them every seconds in their life. But who can really deliver the word CARE well??

Communication between humans sometimes goes wrong when words are misinterpret. A simple regards could turn into bad intention if its not being delivered well. It night turn into 'Kepo' instead of 'Caring'. What a hurtful words. I hate this word KEPO!!

I myself do experience some of these cases when my intention of caring a person turns irritating. Can't be deny that it really hurtful every time my concern makes people feel uneasy. SORRY!I DIDN'T MEAN IT!!

sometimes in the midnight,plunge under my pillow, i would be wondering am i overdoing with my caring?? how could my caring irritate the people around me?
i do ask some of my friends before and the conclusion was- I'M ASKING TOO MUCH!!
well,i do admit that sometimes i have some silly question. Maybe not sometimes but always. But how can a person cared for others when they knew nothing about them? My intention was only that i wish to know more before i started to care for the them. Moreover,I'm that kind of person which my IQ wasn't that high. I'm totally not diligent in observing faces and situation. So what's wrong when i got more question than others?

In my mind i might think that by sharing peoples stuff,feeling and thinking is the best way for me to cared for the person, but it seems like I've steps on the wrong moves. Maybe it was good but certainly not the best. Knowing less might even do well. Too much of caring doesn't brings any benefits. People do not appreciate, in the other hand they might be thinking 'well,its none of your business'

I could say out loud that i cared for everyone around me. From my family to my friend. But seems like not much of them appreciate my favor.
My sis would be the first one that i'm gonna wondering to what extend my caring should go to. Remember that when we're both young, whenever she got beaten by mom or bro(dad dotes her a lot that he rarely beat sis), i would send her medicine to apply. Sometimes i do apply for her too and vice-versa.But as time pass, our gap seems to grow further and further. No more concern words from both of them. Only foul words whenever we talk. My caring seems to irritate her much. Even more than an outsider. Well,no more hope that my caring paid off. Can you imagine the feeling when your own sister never like you? Don't even wish to see you? She once said before "if she comes back home,don't ask me back. Our eight character(八字)bo ngam"
well, i do feel so at first.when i'm agitate at that time but this words actually slash my heart deeply. Its deep as i don't feel anything at all now. T_T

caring for a person shouldn't turn to this kind of result. it should be heart-warming and hapy things but that's what happen WHEN CARING TURNS WRONG!!

insomnia

date: 7 october 2008
time: 3.31am

Gosh!!i'm still awake!!
i can't sleep~~
my brain are tired,my whole body are tired but still my eyes are opened!!
still i'm having 8am lecture tomolo
its the first lecture of the 5th semester
its Mr.Jerry subject again..luckily it was STILL Mr.Jerry
i realize that DBC batch 2007/08 lecturers aren't as good as our batch
(i mean DBC batch 2006/07.Yes i knew it.i got a repeat and i had to join the junior batch in order to get all my credits clear)
alot of the GOOD lecturers had change.
like my name-alike-lecturer,Miss Tang Mui Joo(p/s: my name is Tang Poh Joo), Miss Tarenjit, Mr.Harry and others. sobz~~
anyhow,i will miss those lecturer much when i graduate.YES!I mean it!!i will graduate!!
but firstly i need to attend all the class and pass all my credits..
so i gotta sleep now!!
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